Family traditions are very important for the harmonious development of the child and for strengthening family ties. Creating and implementing them in the life of the child since early childhood gives him a sense of security, stability, belonging and pride in the family. It is important that each family has its own traditions!
Families adhere to traditions when they are religious holidays, such as Easter or Christmas. These are events full of specific habits or customs that we tend to follow. But each family must have personalized traditions, beyond these classic rituals.
What are the unique traditions of the family?
Do not think now that you have to work on a complex project that involves the establishment of well-developed rituals, so as to provide a family-specific identity. Unique family traditions are made up of small things that many families do:
- reading stories in the evening, before bedtime;
- humming the favorite songs in the family's bosom;
- preparing the cake at home on each anniversary (of any member of the family);
- going to church every Sunday;
- the weekly cleaning of the house, in the family;
- the movie watched by the whole family on Saturday / Sunday, with flowers and all kinds of goodies;
- walking in the amusement park every week;
- weekly manual work time, in which the whole family learns how to do various things manually;
- family meals, etc.
All these, plus others that individualize you from the rest of the families, contribute to your family's range of traditions and rituals. They should be applied in family life since the child is a baby.
Even if it doesn't look like, babies absorb everything that happens around them. As they are repeated and implemented with a certain constancy in his life, they offer the little safety and stability. In addition, traditions benefit the whole family.
Don't try to find the perfect traditions. There is no such thing. They embody the preferences that each family has individually. In some families, they occur spontaneously, without being thought of before and begin to take root over time, so that they later identify with the family.
What happens when you have certain rituals and the partner others?
Whether you have certain traditions and customs, religious or not, and your partner comes from another religion or has other rituals, you do not necessarily have to choose between them. The beauty is that when there are more traditions in one place, the child has the opportunity to learn a lot of beautiful things. You can select some rituals from each one, which you think are most important and teach the little one to do them with you.
But more important than the traditions with which you were raised and with which you are accustomed is to make some of your own family. You have the opportunity to establish your own family identity with the help of these rituals that the child will teach and apply at maturity, perpetuating the family inheritance.
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