At the end of the preschool period and especially at the beginning of the school, the children show a special interest in material things. At this age, they are often motivated by a degree of greed for toys that are bigger, more beautiful and more expensive, for objects that they see in other children in order to stand out or to integrate into groups of children.
Ways to discourage the child's interest in materialism
Be an example for him!
Even if he has passed the stage of small child, he still follows the example of parents more than that of friends or friends. So, if you want to discourage him from developing an insatiable appetite for material objects and things, behave as such. It does not place high prices on such things, does not overestimate them and does not show an exaggerated interest in them. On the contrary, it encourages wise purchases and investments. For example, when something is broken show them that it can be repaired and that it should not necessarily be replaced with a new one just because it has a scratch.
Limit the time to the child's TV!
In addition to the dozens of minutes of watching cartoons, the child is exposed to dozens of minutes of advertising that only encourage consumerism and materialism. You may have already noticed that the child has always been attracted to advertisements more than educational materials since he was a baby. This is not a joke. The TV has a strong influence on him and if you do not want to wake up with a list of things he wants and for which he will make anger attacks to receive them, then take action!
Does not satisfy any desire of the child!
Children will always want something new. Even if you now get a toy, over 2 minutes will still want one and so on. They must learn to wait until they get what they want. If you satisfy each request, the child will not learn how to deal with disappointments.
Teach the child the value of money!
Children can learn to value the things they have if they pay for themselves and if they have to pay, they have to make some efforts to raise money. Giving a weekly or monthly allowance can be a solution and gives you the chance to learn the essentials about the value of money and responsible investments.
Teach him to prioritize needs!
If your holiday or birthday or event is approaching, ask him to make a list of what he wants. Have him write down the top 3 things he wants most, in order of importance. Involve him in charitable acts in which to offer to children from placement centers of his older toys. Besides the fact that he learns to empathize and be generous, it can make him think that sometimes he doesn't even need so much toys, since after a while he still gives them away.
Delay as much as you can for the reward or satisfaction of a desire!
Delaying the reward allows you so much, but especially the child to think very well if he really wants and needs what he claims he wants at that moment. Teach him to think seriously about these things by having him draw or write your top 3 reasons why he wants it and considers that he needs it. If he claims that he has a friend with that object, explain that this is not a strong enough reason, in any case a need, and suggest possible alternatives.
Always show him the sentimental or spiritual value of the objects!
The child can learn to appreciate the objects he has not on the basis of cost or how trendy they are, but of their intrinsic quality or sentimental value. When you buy him a bicycle, explain to him that it is important for his movement and for his health. Also, it is essential to teach him to appreciate the symbolic gifts, which are received from loved ones, always remembering this.
"Spend" more time than money with your child!
Many times parents try to reconcile their children or make them stay calm by buying them various things. They also make mistakes when they reward children's behavior through money or material gifts, and the taste for consumerism grows as they grow older. It is more important to spend time with him, to understand why he behaves sometimes, and to reward his successes through love and support.
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